By: Jeanne Reynolds
I don’t make New Year’s resolutions. Don’t believe in ’em.
But I do like to set new goals every year. Semantics? Maybe, but I think there’s a small, important difference between resolutions and goals.
Most people’s resolutions seem to be about fixing what’s wrong with us. Losing weight is the most popular New Year’s resolution in America according to most lists, while the very vague “get healthy” tops others. Get organized, quit smoking and get out of debt are also up there. And guess what? They’re also the most commonly broken resolutions, so come February the house is once again a mess, the credit cards are maxed out and we still can’t button our pants.
Goals, on the other hand, are about accomplishment, building on our success and reaching our dreams. They feel positive instead of punitive. I may not achieve all — or any — of my goals in any given year. But thinking about them and putting them in writing helps me clarify what’s important to me.
So — in no particular order — here are some of my goals for 2017:
- Run a half-marathon in under 2:05.
- Paint our bedroom and get new linens and towels.
- Obtain and complete at least 3 freelance writing jobs.
- Lower my golf handicap to 14.
- Finish the first phase of landscaping in the natural area of our Cat Island home.
- Take a special getaway trip to celebrate a milestone birthday.
I’m far from perfect and there are many things that need fixing around about my person. But I’d rather focus my energy on the things I enjoy. That word — “enjoy” — has hidden power in it. Webster’s defines it as “to experience with joy.”
And if I were going to make a resolution, it would be to let myself experience more joy in life.