By Jeanne Reynolds
It’s taken me more than a month to be able to write this. It’s just been too hard to talk about or even think much about. In late July, we lost our beloved cat, Walker.
When I say “lost,” that’s not entirely accurate, because we know exactly where he is: galloping across kitty heaven, hanging out on God’s screened porch, purring loud as a motor boat as an angel’s hand reaches out to pet him.
Like any loved one, he was only on loan to us. But it’s still been so hard to give him back.
I know anyone who’s lost a fur baby has felt this pain. The staff at the animal emergency room – who see it all the time – were especially caring and thoughtful. They sent us a card with sweet notes that bring back my tears even as I read them six weeks later:
“Cats may be small in size but their spirits are large.”
“Pets are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole.”
“They leave our homes but never our hearts.”
“Some angels have fur instead of wings.”
They also enclosed a printed page with a wonderful message. Maybe it will someday also help you, a friend or a family member with tender paw prints on their hearts.
Our Friend, Our Family
Folks are born so they can learn how to live a good life. This takes a long time. Pets already know how to do this, so they don’t have to stay as long.
These are some of the things our pets have taught us:
- Live simply, love generously, care deeply and speak kindly.
- When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
- Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
- Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy.
- Take naps.
- Run, romp and play daily.
- Thrive on attention and let people touch your heart.
- Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.
- On warm days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.
- When you’re happy, dance around and wag your entire body.
- Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
- Be loyal.
- Never pretend to be something you’re not.
- If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.
- When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by and nuzzle them gently.
Also on that card was written this note: “Our furry friends never leave us. They run ahead and wait.”
I’m looking forward to our next faux-wrestling match and hearing that motor boat purr again one day, Walker. I know you’ll be waiting.