By: Mary Pat Baldauf
Writer Ralph Marston once said, “Make it a habit to tell people thank you. To express your appreciation, sincerely and without the expectation of anything in return. Truly appreciate those around you, and you’ll soon find many others around you. Truly appreciate life, and you’ll find that you have more of it.”
A few years ago, my friend Julie Turner Smith did a yearlong Thank You Project. It was a letter writing and blog project in which she recognized and thanked people who enriched her life and/or made our community an even better place to live. I loved the project and started one of my own that year during Lent. I enjoyed it so much, and I’ve tried to keep it up, though not as formally.
It’s been a sentimental holiday season, and though I didn’t take time to do Christmas cards, I’ve thought many times how fortunate I’ve been to have such a great support system over the past 21 months. Today, I was cleaning my office and found a book of thank you postcards that I bought months ago. A quick flip through it showed that I had not used even one. Then I had an idea to start a new project, similar to my friend’s project, only with the postcards. I have no details other than to send all 24 by the end of 2017. With each one I send, I’ll make a note in the book cover, and that’s as detailed as I’m going to get.
The first postcard is on its way to someone I don’t know who lives in my neighborhood. Every Christmas, they have the best light display I’ve ever seen. The big bushes in the front yard are each a different color, and it looks like a Pantone wonderland. Some years they put it up later than others, but every year we squeal when we see it and ride by it countless times. It’s not Christmas until the lights are up on Ponte Vedra Drive.
So the next time I remember a kindness out of nowhere, I’m going to send a little postcard to the sweet soul(s) who made a difference in my life.
Do you have a way of tracking the people you are grateful to? If so, what do you do? Do you journal it, send an actual thank you note, or something else?