By: Roshanda Pratt
I would like more time. There, I said it. Last month, I talked to you all about my late nights, which resulted in a lack of sleep. I need more time. No, actually I need to prioritize. I have gotten better at getting to bed before the start of the next day. However, I need to be a better steward of my time – between dropping kids off, working from home, picking kids up, supervising homework, making dinner, going to bible study, and the list goes on and on and on. I have recently decided I am going to make my days and my time count! How about you?
I have started by making time for my family. In our busy-ness, we sometimes forget the people that matter the most. In our home we always have Friday nights as “Family Fun Night.” We have three young children: 2, 4, and 6 years old. As you can imagine, when we first started family night, it sometimes ended in complete disaster: sibling squabbles, crying, and me saying to my husband, “We are not doing that AGAIN!” But we stuck it out, and I can say my children look forward to it now, so much so we have added another day.
I am a big fan of creating memories with my family. Children grow up fast! Have you discovered that? Some of our favorite family memories have been putting a puzzle together, tag at the park, playing the matching game, and eating out at our favorite restaurant. I am so serious about family time, I have made a rule that I do not speak to clients on those two days. Time is a precious and valuable commodity. Years from now, you won’t want to look back and see that you wasted you precious time, so spend it with those who you love. Make it a point to prioritize your time. Time is a gift, so make sure you give it to the right people.
Here are some “Family Friendly” ideas. You can get the complete list at Discover Fun. Have you tried any of these? Let us know what you do with your family!
- Attack a household chore as a team – then go out to celebrate!
- Build a fort with pillows from the couch
- Have a backyard vacation
- Make up a funky dance with your children
- Play miniature golf
- Have a cooking or baking party
- Get some old magazines and glue to put together a collage of your dreams
- Make vacation plans for somewhere outrageous. Then work as a family to cut down on expenses and save money so you can actually go!
- Set up an “Olympic Games” obstacle course in the backyard
- Create a family “workout routine”
- Go camping or fishing – or both
- Do charity work together